Are Your Potential Customers Ghosting You? 8 Warning Signs Every Business Owner Should Know

It usually begins with excitement.

The first meeting goes extremely well. Everyone has ideas. The customer talks about a pilot project, future deployment, possible collaboration and even a long-term partnership. People use words such as “promising,” “interesting,” and “we should definitely explore this further.”

You leave the meeting thinking, “This one looks serious.”

Then you send the proposal.

Silence.

You follow up a week later.

Still silence.

At some point, even the crickets give up.

Welcome to one of the most frustrating experiences in business: being ghosted by a potential customer or partner.

8 Signs Your Business Opportunity May Be Fading Away

1. Their Replies Become Shorter and Slower

At the beginning, their messages were detailed and enthusiastic. They asked questions, suggested ideas and wanted more information. Replies arrived quickly because there was genuine momentum.

Then something changes.

Long messages become “Noted,” “Will check,” “Let me discuss internally,” or the legendary phrase:

“We will get back to you.”

The problem is not the phrase itself. The problem begins when nobody knows when “get back to you” is supposed to happen.

2. “Next Week” Never Arrives

“We should be able to confirm next week.”

You wait.

One week becomes two. Two weeks become a month. Three months later, you begin wondering whether their calendar operates in a different time zone from the rest of humanity.

In business, dates matter because dates indicate commitment. If every next step has no specific date attached to it, the opportunity may already be sliding down their priority list.

3. You Are the Only Person Following Up

There is a simple way to test the health of an opportunity.

Stop messaging for a while.

If the entire conversation immediately goes into hibernation, you may already have your answer.

A genuine business opportunity normally has movement from both sides. You provide information, they respond. They ask questions, you answer. You submit something, they review it. Someone proposes the next meeting.

If you are constantly the person restarting the conversation, you may not be managing an opportunity anymore. You may be performing CPR on one.

4. Meetings Keep Getting Postponed

One postponement is normal. People are busy and unexpected things happen.

The warning sign appears when meetings are repeatedly postponed without a replacement date.

Then comes another famous phrase:

“Let’s reschedule soon.”

Of course.

“Soon” must be one of the most popular dates in business. It sounds positive while committing to absolutely nothing.

5. They Love the Idea Until the Quotation Arrives

This is where excitement meets reality.

During the presentation, everyone loves the technology. During the demonstration, people are impressed. When discussing possibilities, the future sounds wonderful.

Then you send the quotation.

Suddenly, their Wi-Fi appears to stop working.

This is when we learn an important distinction: interest is not buying intent.

Someone can genuinely like your idea without having the budget, authority, urgency or internal support required to purchase it.

6. They Keep Asking for Documents, but Never Make a Decision

Proposal? Sent.

Quotation? Sent.

Presentation? Sent.

Technical architecture? Sent.

Company profile? Sent.

Revised quotation version two, three and four? Also sent.

The decision?

Apparently still travelling somewhere between departments.

One lesson I have learned is that more document requests do not necessarily mean you are getting closer to winning the project. Sometimes they simply mean you are doing more unpaid work.

7. Nobody Else Joins the Conversation

This is one signal I pay much more attention to today.

When an opportunity becomes serious, the circle usually expands. The technical team wants to understand the solution. Management starts asking business questions. Procurement appears. Finance discusses budget. Legal may eventually review the agreement.

These are signs that the opportunity is moving through the organisation.

But if months have passed and you are still speaking to one very friendly contact who keeps discussing how wonderful the partnership could become, be careful.

You may not have a business opportunity yet.

You may simply have a very friendly person who likes your idea.

8. They Are Active Everywhere Except in Your Inbox

This one can be both funny and painful.

They have time to post on LinkedIn.

They upload photos from events.

They congratulate someone on a promotion. They comment on AI. They like conference announcements.

Meanwhile, your message remains peacefully unread or unanswered, apparently enjoying a long meditation retreat.

At some point, the message itself becomes the message.

Silence Does Not Always Mean Rejection

We should not assume too quickly that someone is deliberately ignoring us. Business situations can change unexpectedly.

Budgets get frozen. Management changes. A project loses its internal sponsor. Procurement gets delayed. Another project becomes more urgent. Sometimes the person we are dealing with genuinely does not have an answer yet.

That is why I do not believe in immediately becoming angry or burning the relationship.

At the same time, we must respect our own time and resources.

If an opportunity has no next step, no date, no owner and no action, we need to consider the possibility that it is simply no longer a priority.

Give Them One Final Opportunity to Be Clear

Instead of sending endless messages asking, “Any update?”, I prefer a final message that makes the choices clear:

“We had a good discussion about this opportunity, but I understand that priorities may have changed. Would you prefer to proceed, pause the discussion until a specific date, or close it for now? A direct answer is perfectly fine as it helps us plan our resources.”

This gives the other party three simple choices:

  1. Proceed because there is still genuine interest.
  2. Pause until a specific and realistic date.
  3. Close the opportunity and revisit it someday if circumstances change.

A “no” may hurt for a few minutes. Months of uncertainty can waste far more time.

If They Still Do Not Reply, Move On

There comes a point when another follow-up will not change anything.

Move the opportunity out of your active pipeline. Stop spending emotional energy on it. Keep the relationship professional and leave the door open, but focus your attention on customers and partners who are willing to move.

Do not keep watering a plastic plant.

One of the harder lessons in business is learning that enthusiasm during a meeting is not the same as commitment after the meeting.

People can smile, praise your presentation, talk about huge possibilities and sound genuinely excited. None of those things require much commitment.

What happens after the meeting tells you far more.

Do they introduce you to the decision-maker? Do they arrange the next meeting? Do they discuss the budget? Do they involve procurement? Do they agree on a pilot date? Do they actually do what they said they would do?

That is where genuine interest becomes visible.

People can be incredibly excited during a meeting. Real interest shows after the meeting, when they are willing to take the next step.

In business, learn to appreciate enthusiasm.

But learn to recognise commitment.

Why My Best Ideas Arrive Before Sunrise: How Early Morning Writing Became My Greatest Investment

“Why do I keep waking up before sunrise just to write?”

It is a question I have asked myself many times over the years. Nobody expects an article from me every morning. There is no publisher waiting impatiently for another manuscript, no customer demanding a fresh blog post before breakfast, and no deadline forcing me to switch on my laptop while the rest of the house is still asleep. Yet almost every morning, without needing an alarm to remind me, I find myself making a cup of coffee, settling into the same chair, and opening a blank document. Somewhere along the way, this routine stopped feeling like work. It became something I genuinely looked forward to. I realised that I was no longer writing because I needed to. I was writing because I could no longer imagine starting my day any other way.

Many people begin their mornings by checking emails, scrolling through social media, or immediately responding to messages that arrived overnight. I used to do that too. Before long, I noticed that I was allowing other people’s priorities to dictate how my day unfolded. Instead of beginning with clear thoughts, my mind was already crowded with requests, problems, and distractions before I had even given myself a chance to think. Writing changed that completely. It became my opportunity to spend the first hour of every day listening to my own thoughts before listening to everyone else’s.

What started as a simple habit gradually became one of the most valuable investments I have ever made in myself.

The Early Morning Gives Me Something the Rest of the Day Cannot

There is something remarkably different about the world before sunrise. The silence feels almost tangible. The constant stream of emails has not yet begun. WhatsApp groups remain quiet. News headlines have not started competing for attention, and the endless interruptions that define a normal working day simply do not exist. During those precious moments, the world seems to slow down just enough to allow the mind to breathe.

I have often wondered why my clearest ideas almost always appear during these early hours. I do not think it is because I suddenly become more intelligent at six o’clock in the morning. Instead, it is because my mind is still uncluttered. It has not yet been overwhelmed by meetings, urgent phone calls, customer requests, financial decisions, or the countless small issues that naturally arise when running a business. The ideas that emerge during this quiet period feel more genuine because they are not competing with dozens of other voices demanding attention.

Some mornings I begin with only a vague thought or a simple question. By the time I finish writing, that small idea has often grown into something much larger. What seemed uncertain at the beginning suddenly becomes surprisingly clear. I have learned not to wait for perfect inspiration before writing because, more often than not, inspiration appears only after I begin.

Writing Is How I Discover What I Really Think

People often imagine that writing is simply recording thoughts that already exist. My experience has been completely different. I have found that writing is not the final step in thinking. It is the thinking process itself.

Many times I start an article believing I already understand a subject. As I begin putting words onto the page, I quickly realise that some parts of my reasoning are incomplete, while others are built on assumptions that I have never questioned. Writing forces those weaknesses into the open. It refuses to allow vague ideas to hide behind complicated language or technical jargon. If I cannot explain something clearly enough for another person to understand, it usually means I have not fully understood it myself.

This is one of the reasons why writing has become such an important discipline in my life. Every article becomes a conversation with myself. As I write, I constantly challenge my own conclusions. Does this really make sense? Have I overlooked another perspective? Would a customer see this differently? Am I explaining the problem or merely describing the symptoms? Those quiet questions rarely appear during busy meetings because there is never enough time to pause and reflect.

The blank page has become one of my most honest critics. It never accepts weak arguments. It never rewards unclear thinking. Every paragraph demands that I organise my thoughts before moving to the next one. Over time, I have realised that writing has sharpened my ability to analyse problems far beyond the articles themselves. It has influenced how I approach business decisions, technology strategy, and even personal challenges.

Every Morning Is a Personal Strategy Session

As the founder of a technology company, I spend much of my day making decisions. Some decisions are relatively small, while others shape the direction of the company for years to come. Questions about product development, partnerships, customer needs, market positioning, hiring, pricing, and long-term strategy constantly compete for attention. It is very easy to become trapped in responding to whatever feels most urgent rather than focusing on what is genuinely important.

Morning writing has become my way of avoiding that trap.

Before opening my inbox or joining my first meeting, I spend time reflecting on questions that rarely receive enough attention during the working day. Rather than asking what needs to be completed today, I ask what deserves to exist five years from now. Instead of focusing only on immediate customer requests, I think about the larger problems that customers may not even realise they have yet.

Questions such as these often become the starting point of my writing:

  • Are we solving the right problem, or are we simply improving an outdated solution?
  • What assumptions have we accepted without questioning?
  • What have our customers been trying to tell us through their behaviour rather than their words?
  • Where is the industry heading, and are we preparing early enough?
  • Which activities create real value, and which merely keep us busy?

Many of these reflections eventually find their way into our business strategy. Some become new product features. Others shape our marketing message. Occasionally, an article written during a quiet morning evolves into an entirely new business concept. Looking back, I realise that ideas such as Operational Blindness did not suddenly appear during a brainstorming workshop. They emerged gradually through months of writing, reflecting, and connecting observations that initially seemed unrelated.

Writing Has Refined My Vision as a Leader

Leadership is often associated with speaking confidently, making difficult decisions, or inspiring people to follow a vision. While those qualities certainly matter, I have come to believe that effective leadership begins much earlier. It begins with developing the discipline to think clearly before expecting others to believe your ideas.

Writing has helped me refine not only my communication but also my vision. Every article forces me to revisit what I believe, why I believe it, and whether those beliefs still make sense in today’s environment. As industries change and technology continues to evolve, leaders cannot afford to cling to outdated assumptions simply because they once worked. Writing provides me with a structured way to revisit those assumptions regularly.

When I look back at articles I wrote several years ago, I sometimes smile because I can clearly see how much my thinking has changed. Earlier in Favoriot’s journey, I often described the company as an IoT platform provider. Today, I increasingly describe Favoriot as an Operational Visibility Platform because my understanding of the customer’s real problem has matured. We were never simply helping organisations connect devices. We were helping them see their operations more clearly so they could make better decisions.

Without years of writing, I might never have noticed that shift in perspective. The articles became milestones marking the evolution of my thinking.

My Articles Have Become My Personal Knowledge Library

One benefit of writing consistently that I never expected is the knowledge archive it has created. Whenever I prepare for a keynote speech, customer presentation, university lecture, workshop, or panel discussion, I rarely begin with a blank page. Instead, I revisit articles I have written over the years. Those articles remind me not only of what I once believed but also why I believed it at that particular point in time.

They serve as more than a collection of published ideas. They document my personal growth as an entrepreneur, engineer, educator, and technology leader. Sometimes I discover ideas that remain just as relevant today as when I first wrote them. Other times, I find conclusions that I would now challenge because experience has taught me something different.

I value both equally.

The articles that stood the test of time reinforce my convictions. The articles that no longer reflect my current thinking remind me that growth requires the humility to change our minds. Without that written record, many valuable lessons would simply fade into memory, leaving little evidence of how far my thinking has evolved.

Writing Allows Me to See Connections Others May Miss

One of the greatest gifts that writing has given me is the ability to recognise patterns across seemingly unrelated subjects. I may begin writing about manufacturing and unexpectedly discover lessons that apply equally well to healthcare, agriculture, education, or smart cities. A discussion about artificial intelligence often leads naturally into conversations about organisational culture, leadership, or decision-making. Those connections rarely appear during ordinary conversations because we are usually too focused on solving immediate problems.

Writing encourages a slower, deeper form of thinking. It creates enough distance from day-to-day activities to reveal patterns that would otherwise remain hidden. Many of the frameworks I now use, including Connect, See, Act and Operational Blindness, were not invented during formal planning sessions. They emerged because writing repeatedly forced me to look at familiar problems from different perspectives until a larger pattern finally became obvious.

The Best Meeting of Every Day

Looking at my calendar, it may seem that the most important parts of my day are the meetings with customers, partners, investors, universities, or government agencies. Those conversations certainly matter, but they are not the meeting that shapes me the most.

The most valuable meeting happens before any of those begin. It is the quiet hour I spend alone with a keyboard, an empty page, and a mind that is still free from the demands of the day.

That hour reminds me that writing is far more than producing articles for other people to read. It is where I clarify my vision, refine my strategies, challenge my assumptions, capture lessons that would otherwise disappear, and record the gradual evolution of my thinking. Every article becomes another chapter in a journey that is still unfolding.

Tomorrow morning, while much of the world is still asleep, I know exactly where I will be. Not because another blog post needs to be published, but because I have learned that the clearest ideas, the strongest strategies, and the most meaningful insights often arrive long before the first meeting of the day ever begins.

Founder’s Weekend Notes – Why Entrepreneurs Work on Weekends and Stop Apologising for It

My Weekend Has No Off Button
Founder’s Weekend Notes

My Weekend Has No Off Button

And I have stopped apologising for it.

By Dr. Mazlan Abbas · Reflections on founders, focus, writing, and FAVORIOT
© Dr. Mazlan Abbas · Founder reflections · FAVORIOT · IoT · AIoT · Writing · Strategy

When Writing Free eBooks Still Feels Like Shouting Into the Void

I did not expect this feeling to arrive so quietly.

No dramatic moment.
No emotional breakdown.
Just a soft question that kept returning while I stared at my screen.

Should I stop writing eBooks about IoT, startups, and entrepreneurship?

I have written several eBooks over the years. Some came from years of experience building platforms. Some from scars earned while running a startup. Some from observing founders struggle with the same blind spots again and again.

I made them free.
No paywall.
No upsell tricks.
Just knowledge, stories, and lessons shared openly.

Yet after my last three books (Hello IoT, The Favoriot Way: A Life Built on Curiosity and Courage, Favoriot : The Journey of an IoT Startup), something felt off.

Downloads slowed.
Shares dropped.
The quiet became louder.

At first, I blamed myself.

Maybe the topics are stale.
Maybe I am repeating myself.
Maybe people are tired of hearing from me.

Then another thought crept in.

Or maybe the world has changed.

The Moment I Could No Longer Ignore

I noticed something about my own habits before blaming anyone else.

I no longer Google as much.
I open ChatGPT.
I type a question.
I get an answer.

Direct.
Fast.
Clean.

And here is the uncomfortable truth.

I am guilty too.

I ask AI to summarise books.
I ask for key takeaways.
I skim instead of sitting with pages.

Who am I to complain when I do the same thing?

That realisation stung.

Because I used to love reading slowly. Highlighting sentences. Rereading paragraphs. Letting ideas sit for days.

Now, time feels compressed. Attention feels borrowed. Everything competes for mental space.

The Silent Shift No One Talks About

This is not about AI replacing writers.

It is about AI changing readers.

People no longer want to search.
They want answers.

They no longer want ten blog posts.
They want one response.

They no longer want to explore.
They want to arrive.

Why buy a book when a prompt gives you a clean summary?

Why spend hours reading when minutes feel enough?

That question hurts writers, but it is not wrong.

Books were once a journey.
Now they are treated like databases.

Tell me what matters. Skip the rest.

Short Attention Is Not a Moral Failure

I hear people complain about attention spans all the time.

But I do not think it is laziness.
I think it is survival.

We are flooded with inputs. Messages. Alerts. Updates. Noise.

Reading a 150-page eBook feels heavy when your mind is already full.

The new generation did not lose patience.
They adapted to overload.

They want clarity, not volume.
Direction, not depth.

At least not by default.

When Free Still Feels Expensive

Making my eBooks free was supposed to remove friction.

Yet free does not mean easy.

Reading still costs time.
Thinking still costs energy.

AI removed that cost.

One prompt feels cheaper than one chapter.

So why am I surprised?

The Hard Question I Keep Avoiding

I keep asking myself something uncomfortable.

Am I writing for impact, or am I writing out of habit?

In the past, writing eBooks felt like leaving a trail behind. Something lasting. Something searchable. Something meaningful.

Now it feels like throwing paper planes into a sky full of drones.

They fly faster.
They reach further.
They respond instantly.

Paper planes still matter.
But fewer people look up.

Books Versus Conversations

AI feels like a conversation.

Books feel like a lecture.

That difference matters.

People want interaction. They want follow-up questions. They want context tailored to their situation.

A book cannot ask back.

AI can.

And that changes expectations.

What Writing Used to Give Me

I did not write eBooks just for readers.

I wrote to think.

Writing forced clarity.
It slowed my thoughts.
It made experiences visible.

If I stop writing books, what replaces that?

Blogs?
Short posts?
Conversations?
Voice notes?

I do not know yet.

That uncertainty is unsettling.

Maybe Books Are No Longer the First Door

Here is a thought I am still wrestling with.

Books may no longer be entry points.
They may become reference points.

Not where people start, but where they return when they want depth.

AI gives direction.
Books give texture.

AI answers questions.
Books explain why the questions matter.

But fewer people reach that stage.

The Ego Check I Needed

Another truth I had to face.

I assumed free meant valuable.
I assumed experience meant relevance.

Neither guarantees attention.

The world does not owe writers readers.

Attention is earned every day.

Even by those who have written before.

Am I Really Stopping?

When I say I feel like stopping, I am not quitting writing.

I am questioning the format.

Maybe eBooks are not where my thoughts want to live anymore.

Maybe ideas want to breathe in smaller spaces.
Or in stories.
Or in conversations.

Or maybe fewer books, written slower, with deeper intent.

I am not sure yet.

What I Do Know

AI has changed how we read.
AI has changed why we read.
AI has changed when we read.

That shift is real. It is not a phase.

Fighting it feels pointless.

Understanding it feels necessary.

The Choice In Front of Me

I can keep writing eBooks and accept fewer readers.

I can stop writing books and find new ways to share ideas.

Or I can redefine what a book means in a world that no longer reads the same way.

Right now, I am sitting with the discomfort.

No dramatic announcement.
No final decision.

Just honesty.

A Quiet Ending With an Open Question

I still believe ideas matter.
I still believe stories shape thinking.
I still believe writing is worth doing.

But I no longer believe format guarantees relevance.

Maybe the real question is not whether I stop writing eBooks.

Maybe it is whether I am brave enough to write differently.

If you are a writer, a reader, or someone who quietly stopped reading books, I would love to hear your thoughts.

Have you felt this shift too?

Reflecting on 2025: A Year of Growth, Connection and Insights

This year felt like a ride that neither my coffee nor my journal could have prepared me for. When I looked at the blog stats for 2025, I couldn’t help but smile and go “Wait… we actually did that?” The numbers tell a story of momentum, curiosity, and growing engagement from readers all over the world.

Let’s take a step back together and walk through what happened with the blog this year, what content resonated most with you, and where we’re heading next.

The Big Picture: Numbers that Tell a Story

Over the whole year from January to December 26, 2025, the blog registered about 14,000 views, a massive increase compared to last year. The number of visitors hit around 9,400, and social engagement soared. We saw 4,300 likes and 163 comments across posts, both reflecting the highest interaction we’ve ever seen.

The month charts tell the same story of rising interest. February kicked off strong, March sustained momentum, and December wrapped up with one of the highest monthly view counts, a clear sign that this year’s topics connected with many of you.

These milestones are something I literally paused and said to myself, “This isn’t small potatoes… this is real.”

Where You’re Reading From

Geographically, the audience is truly global. The top countries by views were:

  1. United States – 3,376 views
  2. India – 2,117 views
  3. China – 1,785 views
  4. Malaysia – 1,715 views
  5. United Kingdom – 514 views
  6. Canada – 356 views
  7. Pakistan – 299 views
  8. Bangladesh – 257 views
  9. Philippines – 252 views
  10. Nigeria – 244 views

That spread tells me two things: your interests are diverse, and the need for thoughtful tech and life content spans borders and cultures.

That made me think: “One idea sparked by one person can travel around the globe faster than I can make coffee.”

The Top 10 Articles of 2025

Here are the posts that stood out this year, ranked by views and engagement, each with a link so you can revisit or share them easily.

1. Stories
👉 This is a composite link on the blog showing curated standout posts.
https://mazlanabbas.com/tag/stories

2. ChatGPT, CoPilot, Gemini, Grok, Perplexity, Claude & DeepSeek: Which One Should You Choose?
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/2025/01/30/chatgpt-copilot-gemini-grok-perplexity-claude-deepseek-which-one-should-you-choose/ (Dr. Mazlan Abbas)

This article became a go-to breakdown for people curious about how all these popular AI platforms compare.

3. How Influencers Fake Their Way to the Top: The Dark Side of Social Media Fame
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/2025/02/09/how-influencers-fake-their-way-to-the-top-the-dark-side-of-social-media-fame/ (Dr. Mazlan Abbas)

This one struck a chord far beyond tech circles, showing how online behavior impacts identity and trust.

4. Why I’m Leaving Medium: A Writer’s Journey to Rediscovering Joy
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/?s=Why+I%E2%80%99m+Leaving+Medium

A personal reflection on why creative freedom matters more than platform popularity.

5. About
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/about

A quieter favorite: many of you wanted to know who I am before jumping into ideas.

6. How AI Democratization by Alibaba is Changing the World—And Why It Matters to You
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/2025/01/31/how-ai-democratization-by-alibaba-is-changing-the-world-and-why-it-matters-to-you/ (Dr. Mazlan Abbas)

This explores how AI access is shifting and why it matters in real life, especially outside big tech hubs.

7. My Dream Home: Where Innovation Meets Nature
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/?s=My+Dream+Home

A more personal piece that blended tech, design and what “home” means.

8. Understanding the Difference Between AI Agents and Agentic AI
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/?s=Understanding+the+Difference+Between+AI+Agents+and+Agentic+AI

A deep dive that many readers used to clarify a tricky topic in AI.

9. Why I’ve Been Quiet Here: My Journey with Medium
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/?s=Why+I%27ve+Been+Quiet+Here

An honest update that resonated with folks navigating their own creative blocks.

10. Leading LLMs of August 2025: Who’s Winning the AI Race?
👉 https://mazlanabbas.com/2025/08/25/leading-llms-of-august-2025-whos-winning-the-ai-race/ (Dr. Mazlan Abbas)

A timely survey of where AI large language models stood mid-year, and why the future was already wide open.

What This Means to Me (and Why It Matters)

When I look at these stats and see your comments, your likes, and the way you shared ideas with others, it reminds me that blogging isn’t just about articles… it’s about connection.

When I first started writing here, I thought to myself “Who’s really going to read this?” And then you showed up from the US, India, China, Malaysia, and all over — and that response was humbling.

Each comment wasn’t just a number. Each share wasn’t just a count. They were reminders that ideas matter when they’re read by real people thinking in real worlds.

And that’s what made 2025 unique.

What’s Next

Going into 2026, I want to keep telling stories — about tech, about how we live with technology, and about how our personal and professional worlds interact. I want to explore more questions like:

  • What comes after AI ubiquity?
  • How might IoT change how we feel about cities and communities?
  • Where do we balance innovation with humanity?

I invite you to be part of that conversation.

Drop a comment below and tell me which article you connected with most this year and what you want to explore next.

Let’s write 2026 together.

Download eBooks from Mazlan Abbas

  1. Favoriot – The Journey of an IoT Startup
  2. The Favoriot Way – Life of Curiosity and Courage
  3. Hello IoT
  4. Mastering IoT with Favoriot: A Comprehensive Guide for Business and Educational Institutions
  5. Internet of Things (IoT): A Beginner’s Guide
  6. Startup Survival: The Journey of a Tech Entrepreneur
  7. Your IoT Journey
  8. IoT Notes

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Start Before You Feel Ready

Some people wait for the perfect moment.
I learned that the moment never comes.

Most goals fail not because they are impossible, but because we whisper to ourselves, “When I’m ready, I’ll start.”

I used to wait too.

Wait for the right timing.
Wait for the right support.
Wait for fear to disappear.

But fear never disappears.
It only shrinks when you walk toward it.

One small step at a time.

Write the first paragraph even if it feels awkward.
Record the first video even if your voice shakes.
Launch the project even if you are still figuring things out.

Progress grows when you stop negotiating with doubt.

The world rewards people who start before they feel ready.
The world remembers the ones who dared to begin.

So if your heart keeps pulling you toward something, listen.

Move.
Try.
Begin.

Your future self is waiting for you on the other side of courage.

Why Writing in a Storytelling Manner Resonates with Most People: A Personal Reflection

Have you ever noticed how your eyes light up and your ears perk when someone begins a sentence with, “Let me tell you a story…”? I’ve seen this countless times — in conferences, casual chats over coffee, and even in my blog’s comment section. There’s something magical about stories. And over the years, I’ve discovered that writing in a storytelling manner doesn’t just make my articles more enjoyable to write — it makes them more impactful, relatable, and memorable to readers.

But why? I asked myself this question many times, especially when I first started blogging. I thought, Isn’t it enough to just present the facts? Why bother weaving them into stories? What I’ve learned might surprise you — and it might just change the way you approach your own writing.

Let me share my journey with you.

The Human Brain is Wired for Stories

I remember reading somewhere that long before we had books, slides, or YouTube videos, we had storytellers sitting around fires. Storytelling wasn’t a hobby; it was a way to pass down knowledge, warn about dangers, and preserve culture. It’s deeply embedded in us.

When I began writing technical articles — especially about IoT, smart cities, or AI — I noticed that readers often skimmed through data-heavy sections. But when I shared a personal anecdote, like the time our prototype failed during a big demo, and how we scrambled to fix it before the client noticed, people paid attention. They messaged me. They shared the post.

Ah, I thought, it’s not the technology that draws them in. It’s the people behind the technology. It’s the struggle, the triumph, the humor, the heart.

Stories give context. Facts tell you what’s happening, but stories help you feel why it matters.

People Remember Feelings, Not Just Facts

I can’t count how many times I’ve given talks where I presented both data and a simple story. Months later, people would come up to me and say, “I still remember that story you told about building Favoriot in your small apartment!” But they rarely remembered the numbers or charts.

Why? Because stories tap into emotion. And emotion is the glue that helps information stick in our minds.

When you tell a story about a challenge you overcame, or a moment that changed your perspective, people see themselves in it. They feel the fear, the hope, the relief. And when they feel, they remember.

I often picture writing like planting seeds. If you scatter plain facts, they might sprout here and there. But if you wrap those facts in a story, it’s like planting seeds in rich, fertile soil — they’re far more likely to grow in the reader’s mind.

Storytelling Builds Trust and Connection

Okay Mazlan, I asked myself one day, why do I enjoy reading certain writers more than others? The answer came quickly: I feel like I know them.

When we write in a storytelling manner, we let readers into our world. We share a piece of ourselves — our doubts, our failures, our little victories. It humanizes us. And in this noisy digital world, where everyone is trying to shout louder, what people crave most is authenticity.

I’ve noticed that when I tell stories — whether about my early days juggling work and family, or about navigating the uncertain waters of startup life — readers open up too. They share their own stories in return. Suddenly, it’s not just a one-way broadcast. It’s a conversation.

Isn’t that what we really want? To connect, to feel heard, to know we’re not alone?

Stories Make Complex Ideas Simple

One of the biggest challenges I face in writing about IoT or AI is explaining complex ideas in ways that people can understand. I could talk about protocols, sensors, cloud architecture… or I could say:

“Imagine you’re a farmer with a chili plantation. You wake up, check your phone, and see that your soil sensors say the land’s too dry. Before the sun’s up, you’ve turned on the irrigation — no guesswork, no wasted water.”

Which one would you rather read?

Stories create mental pictures. And mental pictures help us grasp ideas faster and deeper. Whenever I see a puzzled face in the audience during a talk, I know it’s time to switch from facts to story mode. And almost always, I see that Aha! moment light up their eyes.

Storytelling Gives Your Writing Rhythm

I’ve read many articles that feel like chewing on dry crackers — all facts, no flavor. But storytelling adds rhythm. You can slow down at the emotional parts, speed up during the action, pause for effect, or even surprise your reader with an unexpected twist.

When I write, I sometimes imagine I’m telling the story aloud — like I’m sitting with a friend at a kopitiam, sipping teh tarik. Would I really say it like this? Or would I add a little humor, a dramatic pause, a knowing smile?

This rhythm keeps readers hooked. They want to know what happens next.

But What If I’m Not a “Natural” Storyteller?

I used to think that too. Mazlan, you’re an engineer, not a novelist! I’d tell myself. But storytelling isn’t about fancy language or perfect plots. It’s about honesty. It’s about sharing what you saw, what you felt, what you learned.

Start small. Instead of just stating, “Our project was delayed by two weeks,” tell what happened: “We thought we had it all figured out, until the sensor shipments got stuck at the port. I remember standing in the warehouse, staring at the empty shelves, wondering how I’d explain this to the client.”

See? Same fact — but now it’s alive.

My Final Reflection: Stories Are What Make Us Human

In my journey as a writer, technologist, and entrepreneur, I’ve come to see storytelling as not just a tool, but a responsibility. If I can make my readers feel, imagine, and connect — even for a few minutes — then I’ve done more than just write. I’ve reached across the digital void and touched a fellow human.

So, the next time you write — whether it’s a blog, an email, or even a product description — pause and ask yourself: What’s the story here?

Because in the end, we don’t just read to gather facts. We read to find ourselves in someone else’s tale. And that, my friend, is the power of writing in a storytelling manner.

I thought to myself as I finished this piece, “If even one reader smiles, nods, or feels inspired to tell their own story, then this was worth writing.”

Let’s keep telling stories — the world needs them more than ever.

If I Could Be a Character from a Book or Film, I Would Be Professor Charles Xavier — Here’s Why

“Mazlan, of all the characters in the literary and cinematic universe, why would you choose someone in a wheelchair?”

That’s the first question that popped into my head. And honestly, it’s the kind of self-interrogation I often indulge in when I stumble upon a simple question with unexpectedly deep layers.

Yes. If I could be a character from a book or film, I would be Professor Charles Xavier — the founder of the X-Men, the brilliant mind behind the Cerebro machine, and the one who saw potential in those whom the world feared. Not Iron Man with his billions. Not Batman with his vengeance. Not even the charming Sherlock Holmes. But Charles Xavier, the bald telepath who sat in a wheelchair and built a school that became a sanctuary.

Let me tell you why.

The Power to Influence Minds — Not Control, But Guide

Professor X didn’t just read minds. He empathized. He understood. And he used his powers not to dominate but to educate and elevate others.

Isn’t that what I’ve been doing all my life?

When I was lecturing in universities, building IoT platforms, or even writing these articles, I was not here to force ideas. I’m here to plant seeds. Maybe even open doors that others didn’t realize existed. Much like Charles Xavier did for hiding, scared, or rejected mutants.

He never wanted them to suppress their uniqueness — he wanted them to harness it.

I thought this sounded a bit like how I feel when someone discovers the magic of IoT for the first time.

The Leader Who Built Others to Lead

Something about Charles Xavier’s leadership style has always resonated with me. He wasn’t the one on the front lines throwing punches. He was the strategist, the mentor, and the visionary who built an environment where others could thrive.

When I started FAVORIOT, I didn’t want to build a business myself. I wanted to build a platform—literally and metaphorically—a place where startups, students, and developers could create, innovate, and solve real-world problems using IoT.

That dream wasn’t just about tech. It was about empowerment.

Like the Xavier Institute for Gifted Youngsters, FAVORIOT became a space for hidden talents to shine. Not everyone sees themselves as a hero, but with the proper guidance, they could become one.

Yes, Xavier didn’t fight every battle but enabled others to win wars.

Living with Limitations, Thriving Despite Them

Let’s talk about the wheelchair. It’s not a weakness. It’s a symbol. Of resilience. Of a man who, despite his physical limitations, carried the weight of the world’s rejected children on his shoulders.

“Would you really choose a character who’s paralyzed?”

Yes. Because strength isn’t in the limbs — it’s in the will.

I’ve also faced moments where I felt limited. Whether by corporate bureaucracy, academic red tape, or just plain disbelief from others who didn’t see the future I saw, there were many days when it felt like I was rolling uphill. But I kept moving forward.

I learned to surround myself with others who believed in the mission — just like Xavier did.

The Struggle Between Hope and Realism

What makes Xavier compelling is his constant moral dilemma. He believes in peaceful coexistence between mutants and humans. But he also knows that the world isn’t always ready to change. His long-time friend-turned-nemesis, Magneto, is a living reminder of what happens when hope turns into cynicism.

Have I ever been Magneto? I ask myself.

Maybe. In the moments when I felt the system failed us—when smart city projects were abandoned halfway or when innovation was stifled by bureaucracy—I felt rage, but I always pulled myself back.

Because I still believe in dialogue over domination and in partnerships over power plays.

Xavier always believed people could change. And so do I.

The Legacy of a Teacher

If there’s one thing that makes Xavier immortal, it’s not his telepathy. It’s his students. Cyclops. Jean Grey. Storm. Wolverine. Nightcrawler. Every one of them carried a piece of him, not just in their tactics, but in their principles.

I remember my students, too—the ones who now work in top tech firms, the ones who built startups, and the ones who still message me to say, “Dr. Mazlan, your IoT class changed my life.”

Isn’t that what every teacher lives for?

A legacy not built with bricks or code but with minds inspired and hearts ignited.

Why Not Someone Else?

I could’ve picked Tony Stark — he’s got the gadgets and flair. Or maybe Bruce Wayne — the detective with a moral code. Or even Gandalf, with his wisdom and beard.

But they didn’t build people. They didn’t create platforms that empowered others to grow beyond their shadows.

Charles Xavier did.

And that’s what I want to be remembered for.

A Fictional Character with a Real-World Impact

Do you know what’s funny? Charles Xavier might be fictional, but his spirit lives in every mentor, every teacher, every visionary who sees beyond the surface.

He lives in school principals who believe in troubled students, leaders who nurture instead of command, engineers who share knowledge freely, and writers who plant thoughts like time bombs in the reader’s mind.

Maybe even in me.

Final Thoughts from the Cerebro Room

If I had Cerebro, I wouldn’t use it to invade minds. I’d use it to listen.

I want to find the girl in Penang who wants to solve traffic with smart sensors but doesn’t know where to start.

I want to find the boy in Johor who thinks coding is challenging but could build the next big IoT solution with a little nudge.

To amplify the unheard and guide the uncertain.

That’s the Professor X I admire.

That’s the character I’d choose to be.

Not because he’s the most powerful.

But because he made others powerful.