I often ask myself—what were the turning points in my life that shaped who I am today? Were they the moments of success, or the times I stumbled and fell?

Life is a constant journey of growth, and the experiences that shape us the most aren’t always the easiest. In my case, several key moments in my life helped me evolve—not just as a professional in the tech industry but as a person. These experiences range from my childhood curiosity about science fiction to my transition from academia to entrepreneurship. Every phase brought new lessons, unexpected challenges, and growth that I could never have predicted.

1. Childhood Curiosity: The Seed of Exploration

I grew up fascinated by science fiction. The Jetsons, Land of the Giants, DC Comics—these weren’t just entertainment for me. They were glimpses into the future I wanted to be part of. I was obsessed with technology before I even understood what it really meant. My love for science fiction wasn’t just about flying cars and futuristic cities; it was about the endless possibilities that technology could offer.

This curiosity led me to engineering. I wanted to understand how things worked, how technology evolved, and how it could shape the world. Looking back, my childhood fascination with futuristic gadgets planted the seed of exploration in me. It taught me the value of imagination—a crucial skill that would later help me innovate in the IoT industry.

2. My First Job: The Reality Check

Like most fresh graduates, I entered my first job with excitement and idealism. I was eager to prove myself. My first major role was in CELCOM Axiata, a leading telecom company. I thought I knew a lot. I thought my academic knowledge would be enough. But within the first few months, I realized something—university had only given me theories, not the reality of working in a corporate environment.

I had to deal with deadlines, decision-making under pressure, and—most importantly—people. I had to learn how to navigate office politics, how to communicate my ideas effectively, and how to handle failure. This experience was humbling. It was a reality check that forced me to become adaptable, resilient, and willing to learn from mistakes. It was during this phase that I realized—growth comes when you’re uncomfortable.

3. Moving into the Government Sector: A Shift in Perspective

After years in the corporate world, I transitioned into MIMOS Berhad, a government research agency. If working in a telco was fast-paced and business-driven, MIMOS was the opposite—it was about long-term innovation, research, and policies. I suddenly found myself in a world of bureaucracy, funding approvals, and national development plans.

At first, it frustrated me. Why was everything so slow? Why did decision-making take so long? But then I understood—the stakes were different. In the corporate world, time was money. In the government sector, time was strategy. Every project had to align with national goals and long-term sustainability.

This experience taught me patience and strategic thinking. I learned to see the bigger picture. It also gave me insights into how governments operate—a lesson that would later prove invaluable when working on smart city projects.

4. Academia: The Teacher Becomes the Student

Becoming an Adjunct Professor was an entirely different challenge. I was used to being an industry leader, but now, I had to teach and mentor students. How do I translate real-world experience into something a classroom full of young minds can absorb?

Academia forced me to simplify complex concepts, to make technology accessible. It also reminded me of the importance of curiosity. Students asked questions that I never thought about. They challenged my assumptions. They pushed me to rethink what I thought I knew.

Teaching wasn’t just about giving knowledge—it was about learning from fresh perspectives. This role helped me refine my ability to communicate complex ideas in a way that made sense to people outside the industry. This skill became crucial when I started writing and giving keynote speeches.

5. The Entrepreneurial Leap: Starting FAVORIOT

Nothing in my life tested my resilience more than starting my own company, FAVORIOT. I had spent years working in large organizations with stable salaries and structured environments. But when I stepped into the world of entrepreneurship, I realized something—no one tells you how hard it really is.

Starting FAVORIOT meant wearing multiple hats—CEO, marketer, salesperson, product manager, and sometimes even customer support. It meant dealing with financial uncertainty, pitching to investors, and convincing clients to trust a new brand.

The biggest lesson? Failure is part of the journey.

There were months when we struggled to get traction. There were moments when I questioned my decision—Did I make a mistake leaving my stable career? Will this ever work? But every setback forced me to adapt, to innovate, and to push forward.

Entrepreneurship taught me that growth isn’t about avoiding failure—it’s about learning how to get back up, over and over again.

6. Public Speaking and Writing: The Unexpected Growth

I never considered myself a writer or a speaker. Yet, as I built my brand, I found myself on global stages, delivering keynote speeches on IoT, smart cities, and entrepreneurship. I started writing articles, sharing my experiences, and engaging with audiences online.

At first, it was uncomfortable. What if no one reads my articles? What if my talks aren’t engaging? But I soon realized that sharing knowledge is one of the best ways to grow. Writing helped me refine my thoughts. Speaking helped me build confidence. And both helped me connect with people from around the world.

I learned that growth often happens when you step outside your comfort zone and do things you never imagined yourself doing.

7. The Personal Lessons: Family and Balance

Through all these professional experiences, the biggest lessons came from my personal life. Balancing work, family, and personal aspirations is never easy. There were times when I was too focused on my career, neglecting the people who mattered most.

It took me years to realize that success means nothing if you don’t have people to share it with. Learning to prioritize family, to make time for moments that truly matter—that was one of the hardest but most important lessons of all.

Final Thoughts: Growth Never Stops

Looking back, the experiences that helped me grow the most weren’t the easy ones. They were the challenges, the failures, and the uncomfortable transitions. They were the moments that pushed me to adapt, to question myself, and to keep moving forward even when I felt like giving up.

Growth is not about reaching a final destination. It’s a continuous journey. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this—the best way to grow is to keep challenging yourself, keep learning, and never stop exploring new possibilities.