
When I started writing, I was excited but clueless.
I followed every advice I could find, thinking it would fast-track my growth.
Some of it helped, but a lot of it wasted my time.
Looking back, I realise many of my mistakes could’ve been avoided.
Here are five simple lessons I learned through trial and error.
1. Write Often, But Fix Your Mistakes
When I was new to writing, I kept hearing, “Just write as much as you can. It doesn’t matter if it’s bad.” So, I wrote and wrote, but I wasn’t getting better.
Why? Because I wasn’t learning from my mistakes.
One day, I took a step back and reread my older pieces. I cringed.
That’s when I realised that writing isn’t just about pouring out words — it’s about learning how to improve them.
Now, every time I write, I also edit and reflect. Mistakes are okay, but fixing them is what makes you improve.
2. Read What Interests You, Not Just to Impress Others
People kept telling me to read a lot to improve my writing.
So, I went overboard. I read anything and everything, but often, I wasn’t paying attention.
I skimmed articles, left a quick “great piece!” comment, and moved on. I thought that’s how you built connections.
But over time, I realised I was fooling myself.
Reading like that didn’t help me write better or connect with anyone.
Now, I only read what genuinely interests me. When I find something good, I take my time to understand it.
This way, I learn and respect the effort the writer put into their work.
3. Comment Like You Mean It
I used to think leaving lots of comments on people’s articles would get me noticed.
So, I’d quickly type things like, “Nice work!” or “Great read!” and move on.
It felt like I was doing something productive, but those comments were shallow.
Writers can tell when your comment is just filler.
They stop engaging with you because you didn’t read their work.
Now, I only comment when I have something meaningful to say.
If I like a piece, I’ll share what stood out or what I learned from it. A good comment goes a long way in building authentic connections.
4. Don’t Play the Follow-for-Follow Game
At first, I thought the secret to growing my audience was simple: follow everyone, and they’ll follow you back.
My follower count grew for a while, but it didn’t feel right.
Most of these “followers” weren’t interested in my writing, and I wasn’t interested in their work either. It felt empty.
Now, I follow people whose work I enjoy or can learn from.
Sure, my growth is slower, but it’s real.
The people who follow me now actually read and engage with my work, and that’s far more rewarding.
5. Write When You Have Something to Say
One piece of advice I used to follow was, “Just keep writing no matter what.” So, I wrote even when I had no ideas, energy, or passion for what I was doing.
The results? My writing felt forced, and I wasn’t proud of it.
Then I realised something: Writing isn’t just about putting words on a page.
It’s about having something to share, an idea, a story, or a lesson.
Now, I write when inspired or strongly about a topic. Writing this way makes the process enjoyable, and the results are much better.
Final Thoughts
Writing is a journey; like any journey, it’s easy to get lost if you follow the wrong map.
I made plenty of mistakes, but each one taught me something valuable.
If you’re starting, take your time to find what works for you.
Write, learn, and connect with people authentically.
It’s not about shortcuts — building something meaningful, one step at a time.

















