The Best Compliment I’ve Ever Received

What was the best compliment you’ve received?

I’ve received many compliments throughout my career, but there’s one that has stayed with me for a long time. It wasn’t about my technical skills, my achievements, or my titles. It was about the impact of my words.

One day, I received a message from someone I had never met in person. He wrote:

“Dr. Mazlan, your journey from corporate to entrepreneurship gave me the courage to start my own company. I’ve been following your content, and it feels like having a mentor I’ve never met.”

At first, I read the message, smiled, and moved on with my day. But something about it lingered in my mind. Later that evening, as I sat down to reflect, I realized why it had affected me so deeply.

The Power of Words

I never thought that simply sharing my experiences could have such an impact. When I left my corporate job to start FAVORIOT, I was venturing into the unknown. I had spent decades in the telecommunications industry, working with structured teams, clear job roles, and established business models. Moving into the world of entrepreneurship was like stepping into a storm without an umbrella.

I shared my struggles—the uncertainty, the sleepless nights, the financial risks. I shared the lessons I learned along the way. Some of my posts were about business strategies, while others were about personal resilience. I wasn’t writing to impress anyone; I was simply documenting my journey.

But I never truly knew who was reading, or how my words might resonate with someone.

A Mentor Without Knowing It

The message I received made me realize something important: People are always watching and learning, even when we don’t see them.

This person had been following my journey for months, maybe even years. He had absorbed my words, reflected on them, and eventually, they gave him the push he needed to take action. And what struck me the most was the part where he said, “It feels like having a mentor I’ve never met.”

I sat back and thought about that for a long time. How many people in my own life had inspired me from afar? How many books, articles, or talks had influenced my decisions without the author ever knowing?

We often think of mentorship as something formal—scheduled meetings, structured advice, step-by-step guidance. But sometimes, the best mentorship happens when someone shares their journey openly, allowing others to learn from their successes and failures.

More Than Just a Compliment

This message wasn’t just a compliment—it was a responsibility. It reminded me why I write, why I share, and why I keep pushing forward even when things get tough. It’s easy to get caught up in the numbers—followers, likes, shares—but at the end of the day, what truly matters is whether we make a difference.

That message changed how I viewed my content. I no longer saw it as just writing or speaking; I saw it as a way to give back. If my journey could help even one person take a step toward their dreams, then every word I wrote was worth it.

The Ripple Effect

What’s fascinating about sharing knowledge is that it creates a ripple effect. That person who started his company because of my story might one day inspire someone else. And the cycle continues.

I sometimes wonder—what if I had never shared my journey? What if I had kept my struggles and experiences to myself, thinking that no one would care? How many people hesitate to take action because they think no one is listening?

The truth is, there’s always someone listening. Even if they never comment, never like, never send a message—people absorb what we share.

Paying It Forward

That message reinforced my belief in the importance of sharing knowledge and experiences. Today, whenever I speak at conferences, write articles, or post on social media, I remind myself that somewhere out there, someone might need to hear exactly what I’m about to say.

We never know who we might be inspiring. And sometimes, the greatest impact happens silently, without us ever realizing it.

So if you ever wonder whether your words matter, remember this—someone, somewhere, might be reading them and finding the courage to take the first step toward their dreams.