How to Embrace Courage

INFLUENCER’S STORIES

Fear is a reaction. Courage is a decision.

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Embrace courage by avoiding these common fears:

  1. Worrying about being judged by others.
  2. Fearing the opinions of those around you.
  3. Caring excessively about others’ feelings towards you.

In truth, most people are too preoccupied with their own lives to focus on yours.

This phenomenon is known as The Spotlight Effect.

You can’t control the thoughts or actions of others, and it’s a misconception to believe everyone is scrutinizing your every move.

So, let go of these worries.

They aren’t watching as closely as you think.

Freeing yourself from these concerns opens up room for personal growth.

Act in ways that reflect your true values and purpose.

Consider successful individuals; their achievements often stem from their disregard for public opinion.

They thrive because they don’t let the fear of judgment hold them back.

So, let courage lead your way and step forward boldly.

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How I Turned Dry Tech Topics into Must-Read Articles

WRITER’S STORIES

My Journey from Academic Papers to Engaging Blogs: 6 Essential Tips

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Writing articles that captivate and engage readers is an art form I’ve had to master over the years through trial and error.

When I first started sharing my thoughts on gadgets and technology, I didn’t realize how important it was to make my content informative and engaging.

This journey has taken me from academic papers to blogs and now to a broader audience interested in the Internet of Things (IoT) and smart cities.

I remember the early days of my blogging journey.

I was sitting at my desk, staring at a blank screen. “How do I make this interesting?” I would ask myself.

Who is going to read this?” Over time, I discovered that writing articles people want to read involves a mix of storytelling, practicality, and a touch of personality.

1. Understand Your Audience

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One of my first lessons was the importance of knowing who you’re writing for. It might sound obvious, but this step is often overlooked.

I used to write purely from my perspective, focusing on what I found interesting.

But as I dig deeper into blogging, I realized that my audience had different needs and interests.

One evening, while reviewing my blog statistics, I asked myself, “Who are my readers?” “What are they looking for?

I started paying attention to the comments, the most-read articles, and the feedback I received.

It became clear that my audience was not just tech enthusiasts but also professionals looking for practical applications of IoT and insights into smart city developments.

Understanding my audience meant I had to shift my focus.

Instead of discussing the latest gadgets, I explored how these technologies could be applied in real-world scenarios.

This approach made my content more relevant and helped establish a connection with my readers.

2. Start with a Hook

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Getting someone’s attention in the first few seconds is crucial.

In today’s fast-paced world, people have short attention spans.

If your article doesn’t grab them immediately, they’ll move on to something else.

I recall an article I wrote about the future of IoT in healthcare. “How do I begin this?” I pondered, knowing the importance of a strong opening.

I decided to start with a personal story — a visit to a hospital where I saw IoT devices in action. “Imagine walking into a hospital where every device is connected, providing real-time data to doctors and nurses,” I wrote.

This hook was engaging and set the stage for the detailed analysis that followed.

3. Use a Conversational Tone

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One of the most significant shifts in my writing style was adopting a conversational tone.

I was used to formal writing in the academic world.

However, blogging and writing for a broader audience required a different approach.

How would I explain this to a friend over coffee?” I often asked myself.

This mindset helped me simplify complex topics and make my writing more accessible.

Using a conversational tone made my articles feel like dialogue rather than lectures, which resonated well with my readers.

4. Make it Practical

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People love articles that offer practical advice they can apply in their lives.

This realization came to me after I wrote several articles that dug deep into the theoretical aspects of technology but received lukewarm responses.

While writing about IoT deployment strategies, I wondered, “How can I make this more useful?

I began to include step-by-step guides, tips, and case studies.

For example, I didn’t just talk about the benefits in an article about smart city implementation.

I provided a roadmap for city planners on how to get started, from conducting feasibility studies to choosing the right technology partners.

5. Incorporate Visuals

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A picture is worth a thousand words, and in the digital age, visuals are more important than ever.

This was a harsh lesson for me.

As someone who loves words, I initially resisted incorporating too many images or infographics.

One day, while revising an article on IoT sensors, I realized how text-heavy it was. “Would I read this if I wasn’t so passionate about the topic?” I asked myself honestly.

The answer was no.

I started adding diagrams, charts, and photos to break up the text and illustrate my points.

The feedback was overwhelmingly positive.

Readers appreciated the visual aids, and they made the information more accessible and digestible.

6. Keep It Concise

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While my articles are now more comprehensive, I’ve learned the importance of conciseness.

This may seem contradictory, but even in longer pieces, being concise is about making every word count.

I used to write long-winded explanations, thinking that more words equaled more value.

However, readers often need help to skim through or lose interest. “How can I say this more succinctly?” became a constant question during my writing process.

Trimming unnecessary words and focusing on clarity made my articles more engaging and effective.


Finding My Unique Voice

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Beyond these six strategies, finding my unique voice was a crucial part of my journey.

As a professional in IoT and smart cities, I wanted my expertise to shine through and be relatable.

While working late in my office one evening, I reflected on my journey. “What makes my perspective unique?” I asked myself.

The answer lay in my diverse experiences — from academia to industry, local projects to international collaborations.

Embracing these aspects, I started sharing personal anecdotes, challenges, and successes.

For instance, I shared a story from my time at CELCOM Axiata in an article about overcoming obstacles in Billing System migration implementation.

We faced a significant hurdle in integrating a new technology with our existing infrastructure.

By narrating this experience, including the sleepless nights and the eventual breakthrough, I connected with my readers on a deeper level.

They saw not just the expert but a person who had faced and overcome challenges similar to their own.

Building a Community

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Writing is not just about creating content; it’s about building a community.

Over time, I realized the value of engaging with my readers beyond the articles.

Responding to comments, participating in discussions, and being active on social media platforms like LinkedIn and Twitter helped me build a loyal readership.

How can I foster a sense of community?” I often asked myself.

I started hosting webinars and live Q&A sessions where readers could interact with me directly.

This boosted my engagement and provided valuable insights into what my audience cared about.

Their feedback became a crucial part of my content strategy.

Embracing Feedback

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Feedback, both positive and negative, is a powerful tool for growth.

In the early days, negative comments would discourage me. “Am I not good enough?” I would wonder.

But over time, I learned to see feedback as an opportunity to improve.

Constructive criticism helped me identify areas for improvement. For instance, after receiving feedback that some of my articles were too jargon-heavy, I consciously tried to simplify my language.

How can I explain this in a way everyone can understand?” became a guiding principle.

Positive feedback, on the other hand, reinforced what I was doing right.

Knowing that my articles had helped someone or sparked a new idea was incredibly rewarding and motivated me to keep writing.

Continuous Learning

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The world of technology is fast moving, and so is the world of writing.

Staying updated with the latest trends in both fields is essential.

I dedicate time to reading other thought leaders, attending conferences, and participating in workshops.

How can I stay relevant?” I frequently ask myself.

By continuously learning and adapting, I ensure that my content remains fresh and insightful.

This commitment to growth is about staying ahead in my field and providing the best value to my readers.

The Journey Ahead

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Reflecting on my writing journey, I’m grateful for the lessons learned and the community I’ve built.

Writing articles that people want to read is not a destination but an ongoing journey.

It requires patience, persistence, and a willingness to evolve.

Every article I write is an opportunity to connect, inspire, and make a difference.

Whether it’s a piece on the latest IoT innovation or a personal reflection on my experiences, my goal remains to provide value to my readers.

What’s next?” I often wonder.

The possibilities are endless, and the journey continues.

With each article, I strive to refine my craft, learn from my audience, and contribute to the ever-growing world of knowledge.


In conclusion, writing articles people want to read is about understanding your audience, starting with a hook, using a conversational tone, making it practical, incorporating visuals, and keeping it concise.

It’s also about finding your unique voice, building a community, embracing feedback, and committing to continuous learning.

This experience has been enriching, and I’m excited about what lies ahead.

The Life of a Startup Founder

STARTUP STORIES

The life of a startup founder is full of highs and lows.

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When frustration mounts, take a moment to breathe deeply.

Dive into a book to find inspiration when it seems elusive.

Reach out to a friend if loneliness creeps in. Immerse yourself in nature to combat burnout.

Take a walk to reenergize when your spirits are low.

Engage in prayer or meditation to manage overwhelming situations.

You don’t need to have every step figured out from the start.

Concentrate on the immediate steps ahead.

Take it one step at a time, one day, one challenge at a time.

Above all, hold on to your resolve and never give up.

Persistence is your greatest asset as you navigate the unpredictable path of building a startup.

Surround yourself with people who uplift you, seek advice when uncertain, and learn from every setback.

Celebrate small victories — they are the milestones that will keep you motivated.

Stay adaptable and always be ready to pivot when necessary.

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Innovation isn’t just about new ideas but also about adjusting old ones to suit current challenges and opportunities better. Keep your vision clear and your goals in sight, but remain flexible in achieving them.

Remember, the journey of a startup is as much about personal growth as it is about business success.

Develop resilience, cultivate patience, and maintain a sense of humor.

These qualities will not only help you endure the torturous moments but will also enhance your enjoyment of the successful ones.

Keep moving forward, stay grounded in your purpose, and trust the process.

Your commitment and passion are the fuel that will drive your venture toward success.

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The Dilemma of Publishing an Article During Weekends

WRITER’S DILEMMA

You never know until you try.

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When I first stumbled upon the article “Should I Publish an Article During the Weekend?” on Medium, it struck a chord with me.

As someone who has been navigating the waters of writing and publishing for quite some time, the question of timing has often perplexed me.

Does it matter when I hit ‘publish’?” I wondered, staring at my draft on the screen.

My journey through the tech world, academia, and entrepreneurship had taught me many lessons, but the nuances of content publishing were a new frontier.

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Should I write on weekdays or weekends?” This question stayed with me as I remembered my first experience on Medium.

It was a leap into the unknown, driven by a desire to share my insights on IoT, smart cities, and the myriad experiences that shaped my career.

But timing?

That seemed like a trivial detail at first, yet the more I delved into it, the more I realized its potential impact.

I began reflecting on my routine. ”Weekdays are hectic,” I thought, considering the endless stream of meetings, emails, and the constant juggling act that defined my professional life.

On the other hand, weekends offered a semblance of calm – a time to unwind and reflect.

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Isn’t that when most people have time to read?” I pondered, but the article seemed to indicate otherwise.

The author mentioned the importance of understanding your audience.

Who am I writing for?” I asked myself.

My readers were diverse – tech enthusiasts, entrepreneurs, academics, and students.

What are they doing on weekends?” I pondered, realizing that their routines might be as varied as mine.

Some might catch up on industry trends, while others might seek inspiration or practical advice for the week ahead.

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I analyzed the performance of my past articles, pulling up the analytics to look at the numbers.

Interestingly, I noticed that the articles I published on weekdays seemed to garner more immediate attention.

I speculated whether it was because people were in work mode, thinking about how my own reading habits shifted depending on the day.

I remembered a conversation I had with a fellow entrepreneur.

Timing is everything,” he had said, referring to product launches and marketing campaigns.

Could the same apply to articles?” I wondered, seeing a parallel.

In the corporate world, we meticulously planned the timing of announcements to maximize impact.

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Maybe I should adopt a similar strategy here,” I thought, feeling a new sense of purpose.

Reflecting on my time at CELCOM Axiata and later at FAVORIOT, I realized how crucial timing had been in different contexts.

Whether it was launching a new product or rolling out an update, we always considered the timing to ensure maximum reach and engagement.

Why should publishing articles be any different?” I asked myself, drawing on these experiences.

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The article suggested that weekdays, particularly mornings, were optimal for publishing.

Mornings, huh?” I wondered, thinking about my morning routine. Mornings were a time of high energy and focus, ideal for absorbing new information.

Could this be the sweet spot for my readers too?” I considered planning my next move.

But then, the weekends held a certain charm.

What about the readers who prefer leisurely reading?” I wondered.

I often enjoyed diving into long reads on weekends, with a cup of coffee and no pressing deadlines.

Surely, there are others like me,” I reasoned, contemplating a balanced approach.

I decided to experiment. ”Let’s test this theory,” I thought, planning to publish similar articles at different times and track the results.

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This data-driven approach felt familiar, akin to the analytics we used at FAVORIOT to refine our IoT solutions.

It’s all about learning and adapting,” I reminded myself, a principle that had guided me through various phases of my career.

In the following weeks, I meticulously tracked the performance of my articles.

Interesting,” I noted, observing a pattern.

Weekday mornings indeed saw higher engagement, but there was a significant, albeit smaller, spike on weekends.

Maybe it’s more about consistency and quality than timing, I pondered, considering the bigger picture.

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This experiment reminded me of the early days of FAVORIOT.

Every decision was a hypothesis,” I recalled, from product features to market strategies.

We tested, learned, and iterated. The same applied to my writing journey.

Keep experimenting,” I told myself, knowing each article was a step towards better understanding my audience.

Engagement was another crucial factor mentioned in the article.

How do I keep readers hooked?” I asked, reflecting on my content.

It wasn’t just about the timing but also about creating value.

What do my readers want to read?” I wondered as I delved into comments and feedback.

One piece of feedback stood out.

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A reader appreciated the blend of technical insights and personal anecdotes in one of my articles.

Stories resonate,” I realized, drawing from my experience as a public speaker.

Whenever I shared personal stories in my talks, the audience connected more deeply.

Let’s bring more of that into my writing,” I decided, planning to weave in more personal narratives.

I remembered a particular talk I gave at an international conference.

It was the story of my transition from academia to entrepreneurship that captivated the audience,” I reflected.

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Sharing the challenges, the uncertainties, and the triumphs made the message relatable and impactful.

Authenticity is key,” I noted, committing to more honest and open writing.

The article also touched on the importance of headlines.

Headlines are the first impression,” I thought, considering the countless articles I had skimmed through just because the headline didn’t grab me.

Crafting compelling headlines became a new focus. ”How do I make it irresistible?” I asked, experimenting with different styles.

I remembered the marketing campaigns we ran at FAVORIOT.

A catchy tagline can make all the difference,” I recalled.

Applying this to my writing, I spent more time crafting headlines that piqued curiosity and promised value.

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It’s an art,” I realized, feeling a renewed sense of creativity.

As weeks turned into months, my understanding of Medium’s dynamics deepened.

It’s a continuous learning process,” I acknowledged, embracing the journey.

I noticed that articles published with thoughtful timing, compelling headlines, and rich narratives consistently performed better.

It’s about the whole package,” I concluded, seeing the interplay of various elements.

I also paid attention to the feedback loop.

Engage with your readers,” the article had advised.

This resonated with me deeply.

Engaging with stakeholders has always been crucial in my professional life. I have also been very actively engaged on my social media channels.

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Why should it be any different here?” I wondered, responding to comments and messages with genuine interest.

One particular interaction stood out.

A young entrepreneur from another part of the world had reached out, inspired by my story.

Your journey gave me the courage to start my venture,” he wrote.

This touched me profoundly.

This is why I write,” I realized, to inspire and connect.

Reflecting on my career, I saw how each phase had its own set of challenges and learning curves.

From academia to the corporate world, and then to entrepreneurship, each transition required adaptation and growth.

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Writing is another chapter,” I told myself, an extension of my journey.

The article also mentioned the importance of self-promotion.

”Don’t be shy about sharing your work,” it advised.

This was something I had struggled with initially.

”Is it too self-promotional?” I often wondered.

But I realized that if I believed in the value of my content, sharing it was not just about promoting myself but about reaching those who could benefit from it.

I remembered the early days of FAVORIOT, pitching to investors and partners.

You have to believe in your vision,” I reminded myself.

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The same applied to my writing.

I began sharing my articles more confidently on social media, leveraging my network to amplify my reach.

It’s about spreading knowledge,” I told myself, seeing the positive responses.

As I continued writing and publishing, I also focused on improving my craft.

There’s always room for growth,” I reminded myself, seeking feedback from peers and readers.

I read extensively and analyzed successful articles to understand what made them work.

Learning never stops,” I noted, a principle that had guided me throughout my career.

The article also emphasized the importance of resilience.

Not every article will be a hit,” it cautioned.

This was a lesson I knew well from my entrepreneurial journey.

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Failures are stepping stones,” I reminded myself, recalling the numerous setbacks and rejections I had faced.

Each one had taught me something valuable, shaping the path forward.

I remember a particularly challenging project at MIMOS, where we faced numerous technical hurdles.

Persistence paid off,” I reflected, seeing the parallels with my writing journey.

Some articles might not perform as expected, but each was an opportunity to learn and improve.

Keep going,” I encouraged myself, embracing the process.

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As I sat down to write each day, I felt a sense of purpose and fulfillment.

This is part of my legacy,” I realized, a way to share my journey and insights with a broader audience.

Each article reflected my experiences, a blend of technical knowledge, and personal stories.

It’s about making a difference,” I told myself, feeling renewed motivation.

Looking back, the article “Should I Publish an Article During the Weekend?” had been a catalyst for deeper reflection and growth.

After hours of contemplation, I leaned back in my chair and sighed.

There’s no perfect answer, is there?” I concluded.

Sometimes, you just have to go with your gut.” I decided to take the plunge.

I’ll publish this weekend and see what happens,” I said with newfound determination.

After all, life is about taking risks and learning from them.

As I hit the publish button, I felt a mix of excitement and apprehension. “Here’s to hoping it resonates,” I thought.

Regardless of the outcome, I knew I was staying true to my voice and my passion for sharing knowledge.

That’s what matters most, doesn’t it?” I smiled, confident in my decision.


What about you? Did you publish on weekends too?

Storytelling Can Quadruple Your Medium Earnings by Four (4) Times

To find your unique voices, turning your struggles into stories, your fears into lessons, and your lives into legacies.

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May has always been a significant month for me, marking both the onset of spring and a season of change.

But this year, May turned out to be extraordinarily transformative.

In my journey as a writer, I’ve often faced the fluctuating tides of creativity and financial stability.

Yet, this May, something incredible happened – my earnings jumped to four times their usual rate each day.

Reflecting on this sudden change, I realize it came when I decided to embrace a storytelling approach in my writings, a change that not only altered my income but also deeply influenced my connection with my audience.

The Struggle That Was

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Is this really worth it?” I often found myself pondering over this question, as I sat in front of my laptop, staring at a blank screen, the cursor blinking back at me mockingly.

The life of a writer, or any creative professional for that matter, is riddled with uncertainties.

Some days are prolific, while others are barren, with not a single word worthy of the digital paper.

These fluctuations are not just in creativity but in income too, making the financial stability of a freelance writer an oxymoron.

Why can’t this be easier?” I’d mutter to myself, sipping the third cup of coffee, barely tasting it.

My bank statements were as dry as my bouts of writer’s block, and the pressure to consistently create compelling content weighed heavily on me.

The struggles were real, grappling with self-doubt, financial instability, and the perpetual fear of irrelevance.

A Spark in the Dark

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It was during one of these low ebbs that I stumbled upon an article about the power of storytelling in modern writing.

The idea wasn’t new to me, but the article highlighted its impact on reader engagement and emotional connection in a way that struck a different chord.

What if I infused more personal stories into my writing?” I thought aloud, intrigued by the possibility of transforming my style to forge a deeper connection with my readers.

This thought sparked a new kind of enthusiasm in me.

I began weaving narratives that were more personal, more evocative, and richer in the human experience. Instead of merely informing, I started telling stories.

The Transformation Begins

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May arrived with its usual splash of floral hues and a fresh vibrancy in the air.

Inspired, I published my first piece in the storytelling format, a personal narrative about overcoming the challenges of maintaining creativity during the pandemic.

It was a story many found relatable, reflective of their own isolated struggles.

The response was overwhelming.

My usual readership numbers doubled overnight. Comments poured in, and emails from readers sharing their own stories filled my inbox.

This is what they needed to hear,” I realized, a smile spreading across my face as I read through each message.

Encouraged, I continued.

With each story, I delved deeper into the emotional layers, exploring themes of resilience, hope, and redemption.

These weren’t just articles; they were pieces of my soul dressed in words, and they resonated.

The Surprising Outcome

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Then came the notification that changed everything.

I logged into my earnings dashboard to find that my daily income had quadrupled.

I blinked several times, ensuring I wasn’t dreaming.

The figures stared back at me, as real as the spring sun streaming through my window.

How did this happen?” I asked myself, stunned.

It was clear that my shift to storytelling didn’t just improve my engagement; it significantly boosted my earnings.

This wasn’t mere coincidence; it was a direct result of connecting more authentically with my audience.

They didn’t just want stories; they craved real, raw, relatable narratives that mirrored their experiences, hopes, and fears.

Reflection and Realization

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Sitting back, I realized the power of authenticity in storytelling.

It was not just about crafting beautiful sentences or using complex vocabulary; it was about truth – my truth, and the universal truths that bind us all.

This revelation was profound. “I was not just a writer; I was a storyteller,” I whispered to myself, a newfound identity taking shape within me.

The struggles I faced were no longer just obstacles; they were integral parts of my narrative, essential for the authenticity that my readers valued.

Each challenge I wrote about, each failure I shared, made me more approachable, more human.

Looking Forward

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As May transitions into June, I carry with me not just a significant increase in earnings but a renewed sense of purpose.

My journey has taught me that embracing one’s authentic voice isn’t just beneficial – it’s transformative.

I am excited about the stories yet to be told, the lives yet to touch, and the personal growth yet to be experienced.

In embracing storytelling, I didn’t just change my writing; I changed my life.

And as I share this journey, I hope it inspires others to find their unique voices, turning their struggles into stories, their fears into lessons, and their lives into legacies.


Have you seen any changes in your monthly earnings recently?

How Do You Find A Home For Your Words

WRITER’S JOURNEY

I have found a true home at Medium — a platform where I found my voice.

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As the CEO of a Startup, my days are often filled with the structured chaos of managing projects and innovations in the Internet of Things (IoT). I am immersed in the world of telecommunications, where technical jargon and concrete results reign supreme. Hidden beneath my technological facade lies a budding passion for writing – my escape and creative outlet.

Discovering My Voice on a New Stage

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My journey into the world of writing began timidly.

English is not my first language, and this fact always loomed large in my mind, presenting itself as a formidable barrier.

Each sentence pushed me beyond my comfort zone as I strove to translate technical precision into nuanced prose.

In my early days on Medium, my articles felt clumsy and shallow.

They were technical reports rather than stories, lacking the depth and flair I admired in the works of seasoned writers.

My words seemed like faint echoes in an empty chamber — quickly written, quickly forgotten.

My initial lack of engagement on my posts made me question, “Will anyone even notice?

Despite these challenges, a resilient spark within me refused to be extinguished.

I persisted despite doubts and language barriers.

A Community That Nurtures

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It was the community on Medium that began to change everything for me.

This platform is a melting pot of ideas and expressions where novice and experienced writers gather to share and grow.

As I interacted more within this community, I realized that writing, much like technology, thrives on constant learning and exchanging ideas.

The encouragement and feedback from fellow writers were instrumental.

They went beyond critiquing my writing and engaged with my ideas, urging me to refine my arguments.

Collaborative writing contrasted with my solitary IoT work.

Mastering the Craft

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As I grew more comfortable on Medium, my approach to writing evolved.

I learned the importance of crafting captivating headlines, engaging introductions, and powerful conclusions — elements that are crucial in holding a reader’s attention in the fast-paced digital world.

I began to view each article as a small project, where thorough research, drafting, and revisions were necessary steps towards a polished final piece.

This meticulousness, something I honed through years in technology development, found a new application in my writing.

From Timidity to Confidence

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With each published article, I could feel my confidence building.

My followers on Medium grew, and the engagement on my posts — comments, claps, and shares — started to increase.

This feedback loop was exhilarating; it was tangible evidence that my words were resonating with others.

This newfound confidence was transformative.

I moved from being a timid, uncertain writer to one who could assertively claim his space within the community.

Medium became more than just a platform for sharing thoughts; it was a crucible where my identity as a writer was forged.

Embracing My Unique Voice

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Today, I look back on my journey with a sense of accomplishment.

Medium has taught me that my unique perspective as a technologist can enrich my writing.

The analytical skills and systematic thinking that define my professional life have become assets in my creative endeavors.

My narrative is no longer just about overcoming a language barrier; it’s about embracing my background in technology to offer fresh insights on familiar topics.

Each article is a blend of precision and creativity, reflecting the dual aspects of my professional expertise and personal passion.

A Home Among Words

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I have found a true home at Medium — a platform where every voice, including those that start as hesitant whispers, can find strength and resonance.

Here, in this vibrant community of writers and readers, I belong.

In the heart of Medium, amidst its myriad voices and stories, I continue to write, share, and dream.

This is more than a platform; it’s a stage where my once uncertain voice now sings clearly and confidently. Here, on this vast and endless stage, I’ve discovered not just my way, but also my heart and my resonance.

And here, I will stay. For in this space, I have not only found my voice but have also connected with a community that continues to inspire and propel me forward.

Let this account of my journey be a testament to the power of perseverance and the transformative potential of embracing one’s unique voice in the world of writing.

7 Signs You Were Born to Be an Entrepreneur

STARTUP STORIES

Here are 7 Signs You Were Born to Be an Entrepreneur.

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Ever wonder if the entrepreneurial spirit runs in your veins?

While the path to entrepreneurship isn’t one-size-fits-all, there are certain traits and behaviors that set natural-born entrepreneurs apart from the rest.

Whether it’s a burning desire to innovate, an uncanny knack for problem-solving, or an insatiable appetite for risk, these characteristics can often be spotted early in life.

If you’ve ever felt a restless drive to create, lead, and disrupt the status quo, you might just be destined to forge your own path in the business world.

Here are seven (7) signs that you were born to be an entrepreneur and entrepreneurship seems to be your natural calling.

1 — Innate Problem Solver

Since you were young, solving problems has come as naturally to you as breathing.

You found innovative solutions to everyday issues and enjoyed the process thoroughly.

2 — Constant Curiosity

You have an insatiable curiosity about how things work and how they can be improved.

Your mind is always buzzing with ideas for improving existing products or creating entirely new ones.

3 — Resilience in Failure

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Where others see devastating failures, you see essential learning opportunities.

Every setback has been a stepping stone to your next big idea, fueling your determination rather than discouraging you.

4 — Passionate Persuader

You have a natural talent for convincing others.

Whether it’s selling a product, pitching an idea, or rallying a team, you do it with a persuasive and inspiring passion.

5 — Thrives on Autonomy

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The thought of being confined to a traditional 9-to-5 job makes you feel restless.

You crave the freedom to make your own decisions and the flexibility to follow your entrepreneurial instincts.

6 — Visionary Thinking

You always think big.

While others may doubt and hesitate, you see the bigger picture and have a clear vision of what you want to achieve, often thinking several steps ahead of the current trends.

7 — Unwavering Commitment

The energy and commitment you bring to your ventures are unparalleled.

You’re not just involved in projects but committed to seeing them grow from mere ideas to successful enterprises.


Embracing the Entrepreneurial Life

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You thrive on the challenges that come with building something from the ground up.

The ups and downs of startup life don’t deter you — they invigorate you.

You’re not just looking for a job; you’re creating a legacy.

Taking the Entrepreneurial Leap

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If these traits sound familiar, it’s time to embrace your entrepreneurial spirit fully.

Here’s how you can nurture your entrepreneurial journey:

  • Start Small and Scale: Begin with small projects to test your ideas and understand the market. Learn, adapt, and then scale your operations based on feedback and results.
  • Network Relentlessly: Connect with other entrepreneurs, mentors, and potential investors. Networking will not only inspire you but also open doors to opportunities.
  • Learn Continuously: The business world is ever-evolving, and staying updated with the latest trends and technologies is crucial. Invest time in learning new skills that will help you stay competitive.
  • Stay Resilient: Entrepreneurship is a rollercoaster ride of highs and lows. Prepare to face challenges head-on and don’t get discouraged by setbacks.
  • Plan Financially: Manage your resources wisely. Sound financial planning is essential for turning your entrepreneurial dreams into reality.

The entrepreneurial journey is as rewarding as it is challenging, and the world needs visionaries who dare to innovate and inspire.

Now, take the plunge, let your entrepreneurial spirit lead the way, and make your mark on the world.

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How to Remember Names to People’s Faces

SELF-IMPROVEMENT

These ten (10) strategies are more than just tools; they are my companions in connection.

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In my work, networking is vital, and forgetting a name isn’t just embarrassing – it feels like a professional blunder.

I’ve had countless moments where a person whose face is familiar but whose name dances just beyond reach greets me with a warm, “Hello, it’s great to see you again!

Meanwhile, my mind races in panic.

In these moments, amidst the smiles and handshakes, I’ve found myself asking for business cards under the guise of needing their details, or worse, sheepishly admitting I’ve forgotten their name.

These interactions often leave me ruminating over the incident, feeling frustration and embarrassment.

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How could I not remember? They remembered mine,” I’d chastise myself.

In business networking, where knowing names is as crucial as exchanging ideas, my inability to recall names made me feel unprofessional and, frankly, a bit rude.

Determined to overcome this challenge, I embarked on a mission to master remembering names.

I needed a system, a technique – anything that could spare me from future embarrassments.

Here’s a glimpse into the ten key strategies to remember names effectively.

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1 – Repeat the Name

Nice to meet you, Siti Sarah.” I’d say it out loud, anchoring Siti Sarah’s name in the air between us.

So, Siti Sarah, how long have you been in marketing?” Continuing to use her name in conversation, I reinforced the connection, hoping it would stick.

It felt forced at first, but repetition was my first defense against forgetting.

2 – Associate with a Visual Image

When I met Abu, whose name didn’t trigger any immediate associations, I pictured him like “ashes” (in Malay, it is called “Abu”) after burning a bonfire.

It was a simple image, yet vivid enough to be memorable.

Each subsequent encounter with Abu reinforced this mental image, effectively linking his name to something familiar.

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3 – Make a Connection

Meeting Maya, a veterinarian, gave me a perfect keyword: Maya, the vet.

This connection wasn’t just about her profession; it was a way to link her identity to something meaningful and specific.

Maya the vet” wasn’t just a mnemonic – it was a story I remembered when sending my cat to the vet.

4 – Use Mnemonics

Mnemonics were trickier.

Meeting someone named Malek, I rhymed it with “lake” and imagined him rowing on a serene lake.

These creative associations sometimes felt silly, but the sillier they were, the better they stuck.

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5 – Write It Down

After each event, I’d jot down names and details on my phone. “Met Safuan – plump, glasses, likes innovation” would be a typical note.

Writing helped me remember and provided a reference for future interactions.

6 – Ask for the Spelling

This tactic was beneficial with unique names. “Is that Rahim with an R-A-H-I-M?” I’d inquire.

Often, spelling it out transformed the name from an abstract sound to a concrete series of letters in my mind.

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7 – Make a Connection with Someone You Know

Connecting new names to familiar ones was unexpectedly powerful.

Meeting a new Azman instantly brought to mind my childhood friend Azman.

This linkage provided a bridge from the new to the familiar, embedding the new Azman in a network of existing memories.

8 — Focus and Be Present

I learned to quiet the inner monologue during introductions.

Instead of planning my following sentence, I focused intently on the person before me.

This mindfulness, this entire presence, was perhaps the most challenging yet rewarding change I implemented.

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9 — Use Their Name in Conversation

Using the person’s name in our conversation was like reinforcing a learning loop.

What do you think about that, Zura?” I’d ask. Each repetition was a gentle hammer tap, embedding her name deeper in my memory.

10 — Visualize the Name Written Out

Visualizing names as if they were written on a name tag across the person’s chest helped differently.

I’d imagine the letters, the font, even the color.

This helped with spelling and visual memory, which was often stronger than auditory memory for me.

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Through trial and error, I crafted a multifaceted approach to remembering names.

Each strategy had its place, and together, they formed a robust defense against my previous forgetfulness.

More importantly, these techniques showed me that remembering someone’s name wasn’t just a memory trick; it was a sign of respect, a way to honor the person and their identity.

As I continue to meet new people, these strategies are more than just tools; they are my companions in the art of connection, making each handshake and smile a step toward a genuinely memorable interaction.

What are your tips for remembering a person’s name? Kindly share in the comments section.

Staying True To Your Passion and Purpose

WRITER’S STORIES

In the end, the best tales are those that take time to unfold.

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As I sit here reflecting on my past, I’m fighting a battle of emotions—a mix of frustration and pride.

People love to sell us stories of overnight success, of magic shortcuts that supposedly lead to instant fame and fortune. “Oh, how different reality is,” I often remind myself.

Remember why you started, Mazlan?” Ten years ago, I was brimming with a desire to share my thoughts and insights with the world.

I took the plunge and began writing online.

Since then, it’s been a whirlwind filled with its own highs and lows.

I’ve built a community, launched a newsletter, and published books. I’ve grown immensely as a writer.

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To outsiders, it may appear as though I’ve stumbled upon a glamorous success story. “But let me pull back the curtain for you,” I’d say if they were here.

Most people don’t see the immense amount of work that goes into each piece of content.

I’ve published hundreds of stories to date!” Each one is like laying a brick in a vast wall.

I’m building brick by brick.

It can be tedious, and sometimes it truly is.

I’ve spent countless lonely hours at my keyboard, pouring my heart and soul into articles that sometimes never see the light of day — ending up in my drafts folder or disappearing into the internet’s black hole.

My follower count on Medium grew to over 2,000, which is an achievement.

Some articles have garnered good earnings, which are always a sweet bonus.

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But behind these small victories lies a vast sea of quickly forgotten content.

And frankly, I’m still far from making a living solely from my writing,” I sigh.

During moments of reflection, I often ask, “Is all this effort worth it?”

Doubt creeps in, and I grapple with thoughts of giving up.

During these times, I pause and reconnect with my initial motivations.

Why did you start writing, Mazlan?” My goal has always been to empower people through my writing and create a community.

Being your coach and cheerleader is no easy feat — it’s mentally exhausting.

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Yet, there’s nowhere else I’d rather be than right here, right now, doing what I love, regardless of the outcome.

I’ve realized that every article I write, whether a hit or a miss, contributes to my growth as a writer.

When I doubt myself among successful peers, I step back.

Look how far you’ve come, Mazlan,” I remind myself.

It’s essential to appreciate the journey.

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The journey, with all its ups and downs, is what matters most.

The process of creating and expressing oneself is where the real value lies.

You can’t fail if you’re doing what you love,” I affirm.

But the moment you stop loving what you do, failure sneaks in.

So, to anyone feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to succeed overnight, remember this: real success is not about hitting it big quickly.

It’s about resilience, writing your story over many nights, and staying true to your passion and purpose, no matter what.

Let’s keep writing our own stories, filled with persistence and passion,” I encourage myself and others.

In the end, the best tales are those that take time to unfold.


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Turning Life’s Challenges Into Stepping Stones

LIFE STORIES

From doubts to dreams.

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Ever since I can remember, I’ve been someone who dreamt big.

Lying in bed at night as a child, my room lit only by the soft glow of a nightlight, I would imagine the most fantastic future for myself.

Astronaut, scientist, inventor – the possibilities stretched like the universe itself, endless and exhilarating.

My heartbeat matched the rhythm of my dreams, each thump reaffirming the potential I believed I held.

Someday, you’re going to make us all proud,” my mom would say with a smile, her words a gentle nudge towards an undefined greatness.

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I believed her, and more importantly, I believed in myself.

My ambitions were not just dreams; they were inevitable realities waiting for me just over the horizon.

But as the years passed, the horizon seemed to stretch further away, and the path grew rocky.

The school was my first real battleground.

I remember sitting in my sixth-grade classroom, staring at a math test as though it were written in an alien script.

Numbers danced mockingly before my eyes, refusing to make sense.

I’m not good enough for this,” I whispered to myself, a despair mantra that began eating away at the edges of my confidence.

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That day, I took my first taste of failure, bitter and lingering.

High school wasn’t any kinder.

Social dynamics, more challenging courses, and an ever-growing awareness of my family’s financial limitations compounded my daily struggles.

Dreams of space and science gave way to more immediate concerns: passing tests, fitting in, and making it through without drawing too much attention to myself.

It’s all just a little too hard, isn’t it?” I’d mutter under my breath, the weight of adolescent angst pressing down on me.

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My dreams felt childish now, foolish in the face of real-world pressures.

The ambition that had once fueled me was now just another source of pain, a reminder of how far I was from where I wanted to be.

Entering the workforce did little to alleviate these feelings.

Entry-level jobs were grindingly mundane, each day resembling the one before.

I watched my peers, some of whom had struggled alongside me, climb their way up, their successes seeming both deserved and distant.

Why them and not me? What am I missing?” The questions haunted me, echoes of doubt that filled my quieter moments.

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I saw friends innovate and advance, while I felt stuck, incapable of shaking the sense that I was meant for more, yet unable to reach it.

Then, something shifted.

It could be the accumulation of seeing others rise despite their battles or the weariness of carrying negativity that had become too heavy.

I began to look at my challenges differently.

Maybe this isn’t a blockade; maybe it’s just a detour,” I told myself.

Each setback and disappointment became less of a stop sign and more of a redirection, a nudge towards a different path that might ultimately lead to a destination I had always hoped to reach.

I started taking night classes, pushing through the fatigue of full workdays to expand my skills.

During one of these classes, I found it – my passion for digital design, a field that married creativity with technology in ways I hadn’t imagined possible.

See? There’s always something new to discover, a new dream to chase,” I’d say to my reflection, a newfound determination lighting up my features.

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Slowly, I built a portfolio, took on small freelance projects, and began to see progress.

Each completed assignment was a stepping stone, each client meeting a boost to my confidence.

As I moved forward, I realized that the light at the end of the tunnel wasn’t a distant, external light but something within me all along, waiting to be burned into flame by perseverance and a shift in perspective.

Success, I learned, isn’t about eradicating struggles; it’s about growing through them, harnessing them to propel you forward.

Looking back, I can see the tapestry of my life – every thread of difficulty woven in with those of triumph. “You’ve made it, and you’ll keep making it,” I often remind myself, a smile playing on my lips.

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To anyone out there feeling beaten down by life’s relentless challenges, remember this: do not give up.

Your dreams do not have expiration dates, and your struggles are not roadblocks but invitations to rise, reshape your journey, and find success in ways you might never have imagined.

The light at the end of the tunnel is not an illusion; it’s the product of your enduring spirit.

Keep moving, keep dreaming, and keep reaching for that light.

It’s closer than you think.


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